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Baby Shower Etiquette: Showing Manners During This Special Event




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Baby Shower

There are many different events parents all over the world celebrate today, and a baby shower is definitely one of the most important ones they never miss out. A baby shower is a fun and memorable way of welcoming a baby into the world. During this event, parents-to-be invite their closest friends and relatives for a small get-together, where they eat, play games and talk about the joys of parenthood.

Although they are usually informal, baby showers are still considered solemn celebrations. Whether you’re the one hosting the event or a guest, you must remember to be on your best behavior all throughout the party. After all, everyone invited to a baby shower are supposedly adults.

Here are several helpful baby shower etiquette reminders when you hold this event.


Etiquette For The Host

The Host

  • Baby showers usually have between 6 to 25 guests. It’s up to you to decide whether you want a small gathering or a large one.
  • Send the invitations at least three weeks or a month before the party. This will give your guests ample time to get gifts for the baby, and also enough time for you to prepare the event.
  • Women who had miscarriages or are having difficulty conceiving can be a bit touchy about baby shower. If you have a friend who have been through these situations, call them up personally to let them know how much you value their presence at your party. Tell them you really want them to be with you at the shower, but the decision is still theirs to make.
  • Find a good baby shower venue that’s spacious enough to hold all the guests. You should also choose one that’s easily accessible for everyone, especially the mom-to-be.
  • If you can, get a baby shower registry. Registering at a baby store is a practical idea, since it not only allows you to choose what gifts you want to receive, but also to let the guests have an easier time getting gifts for the baby.
  • You don’t have to serve a full meal during a baby shower, but do make sure the refreshments you offer are tasty and sufficient for everyone. It’ll be disastrous if you run out of food in the middle of the party.
  • Give out party favors to the guests as a simple, but memorable token of appreciation, so they’ll always remember what a wonderful time they had during the event.


Etiquette For The Guest

Baby Shower Guests

  • Once you received the invitation, call the host/hostess of the shower to R.S.V.P. if you’ll be able to make it. If you know you won’t be able to attend, you should inform them too. Be tactful and polite when doing so.
  • Don’t forget to bring a baby shower gift. It doesn’t have to be expensive or classy, just something to show your heartfelt congratulations to the parents.
  • Don’t be late! Be at the venue at the time specified in the invitation, or at least a few minutes earlier.
  • Unless the invitations specifies that you can bring a date, don’t bring anyone with you to the baby shower.
  • Be a good sport during the party. Be jovial and join the party games, no matter how cheesy or childish they may be.



Baby showers are fun and memorable, but in order for them to be successful, both the host and the guests should show proper etiquette. Keep these simple thoughts in mind whether you’re holding a baby shower or going to one. If you’re interested in reading this article, you’ll be delighted to learn how to host a party.


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    1. junebug said,

      on 2008-08-10 at 19:53:58

      ugh... these things are always so pretentious. everyone with a fake smile on their face... forced to sit through mindless games. It's just a way for the mother to be to rake in loot and be the center of attention - which is not always a good thing

    2. Jezebel said,

      on 2008-09-26 at 04:50:02

      I don't think baby showers are pretentious at all. I mean, you invite your closest friends and family members, and you're already at ease with them. it's not like they're acquaintances or people you don't interact in a daily basis. Don't be so negative!

    3. theworm491 said,

      on 2008-10-06 at 02:03:08

      Well, I can relate to what junebug says. Oftentimes when you meet relatives you don't really know, you have to show your best, which is admittedly very irritating. I think you're too pessimistic though. Baby showers are always fun to me, anyway. I think that's because I just adore babies. :)

    4. Franz Bonaparta said,

      on 2008-10-29 at 18:35:59

      Baby showers are the best way for husbands to have affairs with their wife's hot sister. Or mom. Or grandma.

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